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Binaural Beats and Isotones




“I have the amazing ability to clearly communicate my wisdom to others.”  
– Kris Carr’s affirmation for day 13
Day 13 Weigh In: 76.5kg’s 

I’M SO EXCITED ALL THE TIME!
Looks like the weight is falling off again.  It’s not the main point of this adventure but I am certainly not complaining. Went to gym today for a 30 minute weight session and 20 minute run. I hit the sauna for 15 minutes afterward and I feel amazing.
Tomorrow is a new day as well, imagine that? Blessed.

Have you been meditating?


Meditation is a great practice to develop. What could be the harm in quieting your mind, to feel what it’s like to be gently inside your body. If you don’t notice effects straight away, please don’t be discouraged – keep at it, and slowly you will become a master of knowing your true self. If you find it too hard to quiet your mind, some people find it easy to start off with concentrating solely on music . In the end, the silence becomes your music, and every sound that is born into existence around you sends shivers of pleasure up your spine, because you realise it's pure energy forming out of nowhere. I’m not exaggerating. Try starting off with some binaural  beats, or isotones (get some for free at this website), most people will notice a strange sensation wash over their body when listening to these sounds – never be alarmed, just let it happen.

If you want to get started on meditating I recommended isotones. I currently use those to kick-start my meditation sessions. Binaural beats are proven to be more effective, however, you must listen to these with headphones as their success lies in dispersing a different frequency out of right and left speakers to emulate a certain brain frequency.

BENEFITS OF BINAURAL BEAT MEDITATION?

Have said t increase: IQ
Aid weight-loss
Calm nerves and anxiety
Aid in reversing depression
Awaken inner awareness and motivation
Open your heart to love!

But hey, I’m not  a scientist, I just participate because it feels amazing and I notice benefits, give it a go for yourself!

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SELECTED MEAL PREPARATION

prunes, miso, tamari, lime, olive oil, sesame oil, ginger

RAW NOODLES 

For the sauce:
Prunes
Gluten-free noodles (vegan friendly is best ;)
Sesame Oil
Olive Oil
Stable cooking oil
Miso
Tamari (salt-reduced soy)

For the contents:
Capsicum
Onion
Carrot
Zucchini
Carrot
Shiitake
Cucumber
Bean sprouts (some crunchy ones!)

1. After adding all the ingredients for the sauce into a large bowl, blend until smooth and creamy (this sauce is freaking amazing by the way, I was stunned)
2. Fry up some veggies but remember the less cooked the better! 
3. Fry up some veggies but remember the less cooked the better!
4.Add your sauce and you are good to go. (Yum!)

EATING OUT

The vegan feast I shared with my mother and sister this week + veggie juice

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Kris Carr's 21 Day Adventure Cleanse


We come today to the body, and how you can make it radiant, take control, and have control of your own happiness.

If you are depressed and have tried every kind of medication without any progress, yet are still to try out developing a lifestyle in favour of healthy eating and regular exercise then there is hope for you yet!

For the next 21 days, I am going to detox, detox, detox!   

Previously, my posts have been  aimed at producing an article, a piece of writing on a topic that is dear to me. The next 21 days (or more, who knows, I don’t like to put a limit on a good thing), the posts are going to be a lot more personal, and hopefully relatable.  

Detoxing; it’s something most girls partake in for weight loss, it's an ideal that spiritual guru’s aspire to, and it's also a process scientists report useless and statistically insignificant. But surely there is no harm in eating mainly from the earth, free of toxins we men have created, even if it isn't really doing anything at the end of the day, it's certainly not going to hurt you. 

To be clean these days, impossible for sure, but we can certainly do our best to minimize the stress for our bodies.

I have certainly come a long way from the smoking, dancing fly-trap, partying queen-machine that I used to be. In a few months I have completely stopped smoking, excessive alcohol drinking, while increasing my intake of clean and lean foods (as opposed to being a carb-monster). However, the real journey first began about a month ago when my sister introduced me to ‘Clean & Lean Diet’ by James Duigan. 


The golden message to take away from that book was (no sugar, minimal coffee, minimal to no gluten, more raw vegetables, and clean meat such as fish and white meat, which I avoided anyway as I am Pescatarian). 

The two week kick start was the beginning of a wonderful journey that I know will only continue to evolve over the course of my life. Not only did I feel completely satisfied all the time, my skin cleared up, I dropped weight with a lot less exercise than usual, and pretty much nothing could get me down, my eyes even became greener, brighter, sparkly. 

So much love I now have for vegetables! Oh how I rarely crave the sweet thing. I know that even the thought of no sugar is scary, and if you are a massive chemical junkie which is pretty much (sugar, caffeine, gluten, random chemicals with names you can’t pronounce lurking in everything we eat), yes, perhaps the kick-start would be more painful and filled with longing. However, by the end of it, you would surely see, as well as feel the benefits. I finally got my body to a place of health it had never tasted before. When the kick-start ended and I began to indulge again, my body instantly slapped me for it. The sugar, which was once an addiction and made me happy, now just made my tummy feel yucky, and my mood drop. So, having tasted sweet, sweet health, I arrive at now, with a much harsher (or kinder) diet to tackle. The Crazy Sexy Diet.


I have no doubt that Kris Car’s methods will make me a radiant little flower full of light and sun inside and out, but I am sure that I will need some motivation getting along.
My beautiful sister (see her page here) again, urged me to take a look at Kris Car’s ‘Crazy, Sexy, Diet’, and with all it’s beautiful colours, pretty pictures, and promises of spiritual fulfillment how could a girl like I resist?

Here I am now, declaring my intent to the world, believing in positive change for fellow human-beings.

THE RULES FOR THE NEXT 21 DAYS
NO MEAT
This one is going to be easy for me, I stopped eating all meat except fish 6 months ago, and I aspire to let the love of my seafood go forever. I want to gage my mood and vitality without all meat for 3 weeks and make an informed choice to either ditch it all together, or include it in small amounts.

Why not eat it?

Well here is a couple of reasons you have probably already thought of. But I'll remind you again. 

It’s smelly, it’s dead. Your animal was screaming and crying out in pain, fear and adrenaline flooding its body in that horror-house of an abattoir before it died, and you are eating all of that. Wouldn’t you rather a plant? Plants feed on sunlight; don’t you want to be full of sunlight instead of pain, and horror?

You can get all your vitamins from other sources, which we know.

Still don’t trust it? Take a multivitamin, it wasn’t tortured for your greedy and lustful taste buds.

It’s rotting there in your fridge, and still rotting, it will never stop rotting.

Animals are cute! Animals are completely helpless against our force, instead of choosing to slaughter them mercilessly, doesn't it show greater strength of character to love those that are at our mercy?

Her name is Susu, my cat, and my teacher in all things zen, a true Yogi!


“Humanity's true moral test, its fundamental test, consists of its attitude towards those who are at its mercy: animals. And in this respect humankind has suffered a fundamental debacle, a debacle so fundamental that all others stem from it.”
-Milan Kunendra- The unbearable lightness of being-

The planet heats up more from our animal-slaughtering industry etc etc.

Do you feel so empty inside that you need to endorse the horrible cruelty that we as living  human-beings inflict on other living creatures just for the satisfaction of your taste buds? What if  aliens came and decided to eat us like cattle just we are to them, the equivalent of what animals are to us (not smart enough for a right to their life).

Yada yada yada I know, I still eat fish, I’m not perfect either, but I’ll be a lot better tomorrow than I was today.

If you need to eat meat for medical reasons, are a certain blood type, ill, or just plain refuse to listen to this. Eat organic meat. Yes, it’s more expensive, bud some animals had a happier life for your extra $2 dollars. It’s also free of chemicals. Chris explains that some meat or fish is perfectly fine and healthy to include in your diet, although she would advise against it of course. If you can’t find organic, just don’t buy it. Organic is expensive now, but it will only get cheaper if you lend a hand in upping the demand.

NO DAIRY

A lot easier than it used to be that’s for sure. With my endorsement of a meat free diet, I also eliminated all dairy from my diet. That is, apart from cheese of course, although I stopped buying it and eat it at social gatherings. It’s a lot clearer to me how easily I feel bloated, tired, sniffy, and less at ease if I intake too much dairy these days, so it’s not proving to be as difficult to refrain from cheese as I thought.

Instead of milk, try almond milk, oat milk, or rice milk. These substitutes can seem poor in comparison to some though. I’d try and get used to it if possible, milk really should stick to making baby calves grow half their body mass in a matter of weeks instead of us ladies. 

Instead of butter, try Nuttelex. You will not miss butter, Nuttelex is much, much tastier! You can choose from nut butter or olive butter as well! 

NO SUGAR

Bye-bye Easter eggs! 

NO COFFEE

I don’t need it anymore anyway, eating healthily has given me much more energy than coffee ever could. I still have a nice cup now and again, but try to keep away from it. Green tea works!

ORGANIC

It certainly is more expensive, I can’t afford it all the time, being a full-time student. But eating healthy keeps sickness at bay, do you know how much my old sleeping and depression meds used to cost me a month? Don’t need those anymore.
I also bought a water-filter today so I can use clean water for drinking and cooking!

SPIRITUALITY AND COMPASSION

Healthy eating is a life-style, thinking you can-do is also a life-style. Kris provides daily affirmations, advice on meditation (which I am a big fan of), yoga (yep, diehard fan) and compassion for others. When you are more calm and relaxed, you are less likely to want to comfort-eat anyway. A clear, crisp, focused, and happy mind instinctively knows what foods you really crave. 

EXERCISE

I am to move my body at least 30 minutes a day, or upto 3 and a half hours a week. Shouldn’t be too hard for me, I enjoy a good run, and a relaxing yoga session whenever I get the time. (Which I make because being healthy now, will only create more time for my lifespan in the long run and you know it.)

ABOUT MEDICATION

I am no doctor, or expert, although I'm studying to be one so I can lecture further. You should not stop taking  anything that keeps your inner demons at bay, or your cholesterol down, as advised by your doctor. Medication is still a chemical however, and I aim to avoid all of those for the next 3 weeks. 

After dedication to meditation, yoga, and healthy living, my chronic insomnia is slowly getting better. I used to easily guzzle up to 80mg’s of vallium a night to calm my mind and go to sleep (that was before tolerance on my very beginning dose). Without it I was awake days, sometimes a whole week at a time. I rarely use it now. Sleep has been a torture for me ever since I was 5 years old, nothing makes me happier than being able to fall asleep most nights on my own, by a reasonable time, enabling me to wake earlier and make more out of my beautiful day. I will however take my medication if it is really needed, no point it a great diet anyway if my brain isn’t recovering at night.I will keep you updated on all toxin's I succumb to, then you will forgive me for it. 

JUICE

Make lots of it! I will have to tackle a big glass of veggie juice everyday. I will toughen up and get used to it if my body loves the attention it brings. I do not however, have the funds for a juicer, or a blender right now, so I am just using my house-mates hand-held blender. This makes more of a smoothie, but it also retains all the fiber found in the skin of the vegetables. 

RECIPES 

Kris provides recipes enough for the journey, with juices, salads, and meals included. I went for my first shop today, and love the look of my living fridge right now!



My aims are to post as much as possible, keep in touch with you, and report progress in all areas, including my:
Weight lost
Memory
Skin, hair, nails
Eye Clarity and intensity
Mood
Anxiety
Motivation
Focus

Working full time, and studying full time leave me with little free-time, but I will do what I can and certainly keep you updated.

I hope you get on board with me from day one! But if not, I hope that when you track my progress that you also gain a little curiosity, and try it out for yourself. 






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Don't Be a Walking Reaction



Do you feel empty? Alone? Are you, for some reason beyond your grasp, unable to truly connect with people? Most of us can relate to these issues. We understand how easy it is to become negative, depressed, and hateful. We may also relate to what it feels like to finally give up on everything, including yourself. It’s a typical reaction to say you have been hurt before, and, it seems much easier to stop trying. It's easier to think everyone else should be putting in all the effort. After all, everyone else should change to try and work out a relationship with you, you’re the one that is absolutely perfect. 

At least with this mindset you are not taking any risks. 

You do however continue to complain about all your previous friends that were horrible, or all the ex-boyfriends that were just jerks. In fact, you may extend this thinking to the whole human-race, blame them, or make excuses. The real issue here is that you are unaware of just how hard it is for any human-being to actually get close to, and know the real you. 

Already angry with the words I have written? Are you already coming up with a million reasons why this isn’t what is actually happening in your situation? Telling yourself you’ve just had a stream of bad luck in the past with everyone that you got involved with? Or have you actually progressed to the next stage where you do acknowledge this is the truth but simply choose to brush it off?

“Yeah, I am defensive; I am hard to get to know. But I have just been hurt before, and therefore everyone is going to have to make effort for me, if they can’t understand that I have been hurt in the past and will need continuous validation, and, the go-ahead to act horrible, snarky, and defensive when I perceive a threat to my ego, then I don't think their worth being friends with”

Are you worth being friends with if you treat other people like that? Stop and think about it for a second.

The truth is if you are unable to acknowledge what I am writing then it’s okay to keep your walls up till a later date when you are ready to bring them down. But if you are happy with that sort of standard in your life then realize your relationships are never really going to fulfill you, nor will others be willing to open up to you either. If you can’t do anything else, at least stop complaining to the people in your life about the fact people are 'shit', or you are just going to push them away as well, and we don’t need you to take any more ill-perceived blows to your fragile ego.

As hard as it may be to take responsibility for yourself and your actions, I have to tell you a bit of shocking news. Everyone has been through some kind of trauma, because the mind naturally creates drama no matter who you are. Ever heard of first world problems? When you complain that your phone is playing up a little bit, or that you don’t have enough clothes, when in reality, other people may not even posses these items at all?

The difference between the person who makes excuses, and someone who takes responsibility for their life, is that they aren’t choosing to act like an entitled child about their problems by insisting that other people are responsible for, or should fix them, instead those people chose to develop a healthier mindset somewhere along the way, or had some help with it. It became clear to their mind, and their ego, that they weren’t a defenseless little child anymore. Therefore it became okay for them to open up to people. If you have a healthy set of boundaries for yourself about who you let into your life you will have an easier time creating mutual-trust. With mutual-trust created between people who are; worthy of your time, or a special place in your heart, no longer will you feel the need to lash out at tiny little things they do that upset you, as you will naturally begin to discern between who has good intentions for you, and who doesn’t with much more ease. And even if a rogue does sometimes slip through the cracks, that’s okay, because your mind will be smart enough to realize that; yes - you may be hurting - but - you are still an amazing person. It accepts the fact you have no control over how someone decides to treat you, or act, and if you consistently feel that hurt in your chest from someone then you actually have the power to walk away. Wow! It seems so simple, but for some reason so many of us are conditioned from a young age to feel powerless.


So, let’s talk about your ego, the place where all these defense-mechanisms began.

Your ego is created by your mind. It is made up of all the little things that your brain associates with being you. Your ego - or your mind’s - first priority is to protect your sense of self – this can be why we are so blind to how we appear to others. Your mind simply just will not let you, it seeks to protect you and when you feel threatened or upset, it decides to put certain boundaries into place, or walls, that protect you from what is  making your heart feel anger, sadness, or grief (a threat). For a healthy person, these boundaries could be walking away. But for someone with low self-esteem (someone who is naturally not in touch with themselves) they may choose to lash out instead and demand to be validated. These people become increasingly adverse to trusting people. They also seem to start all relationships off with  the concept “guilty till you prove your innocence”. The fact that they come to expect this behavior from others, means that they also start to believe they will never get any better anyway, so they repress their need for love and choose to interact on superficial instead. 

Most people grow up with relatively healthy ego’s. However, the problems can start very early on in childhood. I'm going to give you one example, but, there are many  times your mind perceived your emotions as a threat and tried to close off, for every different age and situation. Let’s say as a young child you felt unloved by your parents, lonely, or unworthy. At that young age with no defenses in place those emotions would have been simply overwhelming. When we were children we did not always deal with these emotions in a calm and rational way, nor did we perceive hurts in a rational way either. How could we? We were only children, it was not our fault that our heart told us that we felt lonely or unloved, that was simply the heart doing its job in trying to bring to our attention that one of our most basic needs weren’t being met. This may have made us cry, shout, scream, and act entitled or infuriated when we didn’t get our way, and by acting this way our parents may have not perceived that it was actually more  love and care we were screaming for. As children, we had no way of using a logical adult mind to express why we had all this bitterness and anger, and in an attempt to quiet us down in times our parents were stressed or simply could not muster up the energy to deal with us, they gave-in and gave us what we wanted, such as toys to fuel our insatiable boredom which was actually born from inner turmoil and emptiness. This taught our ego at a young age – before we were cognitively able to understand our emotions – that by closing up, yelling, acting viciously, we were able to attain something that helped us forget about how empty we felt on the inside. The ego was happy therefore you were happy. And please don't go blaming your parents either, they had their own reasons for why they weren't a completely perfect human-being that understood all facets of the human mind.

As we get older we do start to learn that maybe crying and yelling aren’t the best tools to use with some of our friends, but really, we still have ill-equipped methods to deal with conflicts to begin with, so we create new ones that aren't going to be useful for very long. This is because from such a young age we learn not to listen to our heart – we learn to listen to our mind instead. This type of entitled behavior is not coming from a bad place, it’s coming from a defensive place, and although we may develop new strategies to cope as a teenager and young adult, if we don’t get to the root of the dilemma it’s all going to end up coming across as that person we have all known, have all met, or have even been, the defensive witch. This person is angry and empty because they are so out of touch with their emotions and themselves. They continue to justify their negative attitude and anger towards people due to the fact they have been hurt in the past. What they don’t realise is, they have now become the exact person their ego is trying to protect them against, someone who is irrational, lashes out, blames all their friends and the world for their problems, consistently argues, and looks to only the physical to make themselves feel better. They have not learned to forgive.

Ever met someone that was so beautiful – but never satisfied? They may work out hours at the gym, or starve themselves to look better when things just don’t work out because they believe this is the only possible way anyone will ever love them. When everything still goes wrong, and people are still repelled they can only think “what is wrong with me?”. Girls may dull the pain of rejection by trying to get thinner, boys may try to feel big and strong or go out and consistently seek sex from different females, but eventually this person has to realize that there is something missing in their lives. What is missing is their connection to their heart. It’s hard to open up your heart to someone who can’t even open it up to themselves isn’t it? You try to connect with them but find that they are just consistently unhappy with you or their situation, or are never satisfied with the current moment you're in together. They can’t just be. They have to become, always, whether it’s thinner, more intoxicated or more loved. 

If this is you, I am sure your ego is doing a million and one things to protect yourself right now, and protect your sense of self. But please realize that all those thoughts, all these actions, and all the defenses you have put into place are not actually you. You are actually just scared of opening up and being hurt, you have been since you were a child, or that first time your ego  decided it would be easier to deal with your emotions by building defenses, making excuses for yourself, and blaming others. You should also take comfort in this, because even though it may be hard or a long road to take, you can become that amazingly beautiful and radiant person that only creates joy and harmony in relationships with other people. Don’t you want to be that person, finally? Don’t you want to be released from your mind and filled with the beauty of your emotions and the light of your own soul?

Once you take the first steps to removing that barrier, you take the first steps in becoming a person of absolutely high value – you are no longer taking value from other people by being a walking reaction to everything others say and do, you are becoming a genuine and authentic human being in who is in touch with themselves.

What you may believe: I just love to argue
What others believe: That you would rather have a conversation validating yourself instead of truly connecting.

So what if they think that? It’s their perception. You don’t need them as a friend if they choose to look at you that way instead of getting to know you right?

True. But only true from your perspective. If you are currently satisfied with the kind of friends in your life that you can continue to have negative conversations with then I guess you don’t really need to be reading this article. Oh but wait, you are reading this. 

There will be good people entering your life all the time, and they will continue to. Don’t be threatened by them or try to bring them down, be with them, you are worthy enough to be with them. If they are the type of person that only wants to take from you, example; using your conversations to validate themselves, then set boundaries for yourself and choose to hang around those who would rather contribute to their own life and yours. 

I am not saying that walking around with an air of arrogance and negativity won’t bring some people you consider friends into your life, however, they will either be people with extremely low self-esteem that may only drag you down when you begin to progress in your life, or they are people with just as many walls up as you, people who make excuses, people who hate their life, and blame others. 

This type of self-progression is not meant to be used instead of medication if you really need it. You may be someone who has suppressed themselves and their emotions in an attempt to appear perfect, strong willed, or in control for so long that your mind is so confused about who you are that you simply cannot get out of it without some help. Or your brain chemistry (unluckily) has thrown you into this state. But if you really do need medication, there is NO EXCUSE, to walk around a mess and refuse to take it. Medication may also start to change your view point and your state of mind into a place where you can be more in touch with your emotions. It may also make your mind clearer and progress you to a place where you  find it easier to process cognitive-intellect and self-awareness. But please keep in mind, so much of that can be achieved through trying to eliminate your anxiety in other way such as meditating, sleeping well, eating healthily, and exercising. Also by cutting the crap in your life, people, lovers, food and wasteful pastimes.

Learning to open up and take responsibility doesn’t happen overnight. Nor have I become the new Buddha of this planet. But by taking these steps, and first having awareness of what you are doing in your life that is becoming toxic to others, you are ready to take the journey into inner-happiness. Also if you have friends who that might be interested in becoming better people, whom you trust and know have good intentions, perhaps you can both point out to each other when you aren't being your genuine self.

In my following posts I will begin to start off with ways you can become more self-aware and conscious in your every day and relationships with people. The biggest thing I can mention to you now is that confidence is the biggest factor to hauling yourself out of this protective state. With true and radiant confidence, that only comes from inside sources, not outside, you can start to blossom into wonderful person who has high standards for themselves and for the people you choose to get involved with. You hold the key, it's really that simple.

 

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